Have some kind of embarrassing sexual secret or problem?
According to Debby Herbenick, Ph D, author of , the answer is none of the above.
What I immediately found quite surprising is that men tend to have these dreams as often as women do.
I think many women are conditioned to believe that men only have those ‘wet dreams’ like they did during puberty. One man in his 30’s shared that sometimes the love feeling is so intense when he wakes up that he finds himself thinking of this woman for the next couple days until the dream wears off.
Ask about his day, his work, his dreams for his life or your family or an upcoming vacation.I decided to do a bit more research on this which led to me to Carl Jung’s school of analytical psychology where he spoke of each of us having our male side (animus) and our female side (anima).Jung explained that, because a man’s sensitivity must often be repressed, the anima is one of the most significant emotions of all.You may find yourself having these “love” or “romance” dreams both when you are in a relationship and when you’re single.I became increasingly curious about them lately so I started to ask others about their experiences.