This is the big one, because depressing though it may be, your smiling face is the first thing on which people will judge you.Relationship psychologist Honey Langcaster-James says: “Look straight into the camera and smile showing your teeth – this says open, friendly, healthy and confidence.” A recent study of the most popular profiles on dating sites showed 88 per cent are making eye contact with the camera in their profile picture.“Be careful what you say about yourself,” says Honey.“Could someone use those details to find you on Linked In, for example?Keep it short and avoid heavy talk in those early messages.
Don't ask your friends to tell you everything they can because you can end up with a tainted view of what to expect.
“Get to the first date as quickly as possible – you only need to exchange two or three messages before you suggest meeting – you won’t know if there’s anything between you until you’re face-to-face.
After all this is about dating, not emailing.” Along the way, you’ll almost certainly meet some duds.
If you're flowing with it and cool, we've got a winner.
If you seem offended by it, that's as far as we go." —Steve M."Girls should try to avoid pre-judging before a first date.